Is Big or Aidan Better for Carrie? Love Expert Weighs In On ‘Sex and the City’ Triangle

Sex and the City has reentered the chat, and online conversations have sparked fresh debates on the topics of love and dating (like is everyone in New York still actually a freak?) and resurfaced iconically cringey moments from the show that still haunt us to this day. (Bonjour! Sorry, jump scare.)

Like our favorite flawed protagonists, we still have so many questions about what it means to date healthily and find the one. Or what to do when you self-sabotage and cheat on the one with your toxic ex. Or how to best hit your soon-to-be husband with a white-rose bouquet to create the biggest scene possible… We decided it would be best to call an expert to answer our questions and more.